One two three four, tell the people what she wore

I see people who have no style. Their clothes are purely functional and drab. They have no pride in their appearance and no passion for their clothes. And, because their clothes are so uninteresting, their clothes do nothing for them! The people themselves come across as boring and dull! Their sophisticated way of dressing is instilled in them from childhood.  There is no need for them to be told, or, for that matter shown, how to dress - the art of stylish dress is deeply rooted. It is an ingrained skill, an ability. Europeans know and understand elegance.

How do we explain why black African people are the most elegantly dressed and immaculately groomed individuals in South Africa?

From the author …

So what is One, two, three, four, Tell the people what she wore !and the Art of seduction  [1]all about?

Let’s just say that I have observed many couples over a long period of time and I concluded that many have problems. I also tried to work out what are the things that go wrong in their relationships.

There are some answers that you can find in texts and manuals written by professionals like psychologists and sex therapists. We all know what these people are saying.

However, this book is not another treatise about the myriad issues in marriages and other relationships. These have all been said before and they are just not good enough for me because I really don’t believe that professionals and experts always know everything!  Their clinical and objective approaches often just don’t get to what I think the real issues are in relationships.

Over the years I have noticed that the sparkle has gone from couples’ day-to-day lives and that stress, finances, security, routine, lack of quality time together, and bad habits have all killed the passion and excitement. 

Men, in particular, have opened their hearts to me. It seemed that the main issue was, in fact, how women present themselves to men.  In other words, it seemed that it’s all about style, sexuality and confidence. For me, lingerie has always been at the core of those three. You may not all agree with me, but for me lingerie always does the trick!

Thus I thought that I would investigate the role of lingerie because a sexy bra and panties are always uppermost in every man’s mind, dreams and fantasies!

To my surprise I found that lingerie, while maybe the most important single element, is not the only one in a relationship. Would you like to find out more? It’s all up to you how serious you are about your relationships.

Jade Pandora

A woman who cares .

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Why women change after they get married ?

I have interview many men the last seven  years and they all had to say that as soon they get married, their wives loose interest for their appearances. I have seen that with my own eyes amongst women  here in South Africa more than other countries. European women have flair, European women know how to dress and how to present themselves at all times. Challenge me if I'm wrong.